Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex by Hannah Witton

I discovered online sexual educator and Youtuber Hannah Witton this year while discovering the huge amount of bookish and sexual content available on Youtube and decided to create a list of subscriptions to check every day. Her channel – with more than 300,000 subscribers – focuses on sex and relationships, and although I would be weary of anyone talking about such issues from a feminist perspective – I have had some terrible experiences watching other vlogger’s videos – Hannah does a good job by speaking openly, candidly and open-mindedly about sex. When I learnt that she had a book coming out this Spring called Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex I requested a review copy to the publishers and they kindly sent me this early review copy:


The first thing to say about Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex is it is aimed at a 14+ audience, meaning that this is one of the few non-fiction YA books out there talking about body issues, sex, and relationships. Witton’s candid tone translates perfectly from her videos to the text, and she often illustrates her theories with her own experiences and even her own drawings. However, she is quick to recognise her privilege as a thin cisgender while female in Western culture and she does not shy away from including diverse voices in her book. Many of the contributors are Youtubers whom Hannah has met during her career and who offer another take on sexuality. The book includes testimonies from non-normative people including transgender, asexual people, homosexual, and disabled  making the text a landmark in contemporary non-fiction for young adults.

As Hannah Witton is known for her irreverent approach to sex, Doing It also includes a very interesting (and feminist!) section in which the author interviews her mother, grandmother and great-grandmother about their sex educations hence bringing together more than 100 years of sexual discourse together. The historical perspective is not new to the author, who is a History graduate and did research about Victorian sexual manuals during her time as a student. Even though I am usually weary of judging people only by their studies, Hannah’s past in Medical Humanities helps bring together science, art, and story-telling to offer young readers a fresh take on their sexuality. One of the book’s themes is the necessity to talk about sex always in the negative: Do not get pregnant. Do not get an STD. Do not lose your virginity too soon/late, etc. So, as much as sex-positive texts for teenagers, Doing It is a game-changer.

However, I was disappointed to hear Hannah on her Youtube channel, and then on the book talk about a contraceptive method that she labels ‘Fertility awareness’ and that basically consists of: “Figuring out when you are fertile during your cycle and avoiding unprotected sex during this time. Must be taught by a specialist. You monitor your body temperature, cervical mucus, and the length of your cycle”. For me this method sounds very much like the Knaus–Ogino method which has been proved not to be a reliable contraceptive method. Plus, if the book is aimed at teenagers I think that other external factors such as stress, medication, and hormonal changes could affect the monitoring hence resulting in unplanned pregnancies. I understand the body-positive idea behind the method, which would probably make women more familiar with their reproductive system but I deem the risk too high. Several scientific resources online associate a failure high as 15% for this method while Witton describes it ‘over 99% effective’. And while adult women may have more resources (physical, emotional, economic, plus the right to do as they want despite of their parents’ thinking), this method could put teenagers in a risky situation.

Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex is a wonderful book for young adults that I wish I had had 15 years ago. Not only it provides great information about sex, gender identity, consent, and body image among other things, but Hannah Witton’s body and sex-positive attitude translates perfectly to the reader. Highly recommended to the teenagers in your life (boys and girls!), just make sure you mention the many contraceptive methods available today that have been proven more effective than the Ogino one.




  • Ocean Bream

    This is an excellent review. I myself was curious about the book, having followed Witton for a while now, but I don’t think I would read it at my age. It is refreshing, however, to know there is a positive guiding book out there for the younger reader, which deals with this complex topic in a very mature way.

    • Elena

      I read it because I would like to work on gender issues with teenagers someday. But I also read it for my teenage self, because as Witton says everything was described in the negative and little to no attention was brought to pleasure and desire.

      Now that you say you follow her, what do you think about her promoting fertility awareness as a contraceptive method? Maybe I was too harsh, but since her audience must be mostly teenagers I’m afraid this method could go really wrong for some of them…

  • Susana_S_F

    I’ve never watched Hannah Witton’s Youtube channel. The book sounds interesting for teenagers. But I completely agree with you that ‘Fertility awareness’ is quite a risky contraceptive method… In fact, I thought women mainly used similar methods when they were trying to get pregnant, not the opposite.

    • Elena

      It’s good to hear I’m not the only one thinking like that, Susana! I hope that she retracts from her over 99% effectiveness information soon.

  • Laila@BigReadingLife

    We need all the positive representations of bodies and sex that we can get, especially for young people – but I agree with you, the fertility awareness method is probably way to complicated for most teenagers. How fascinating that she interviewed her mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother! Despite how much has changed in those lifetimes, I bet there is a lot that remains the same about cultural messages.

  • greatsexpectations

    Sex is natural and normal. Why be embarrassed or ashamed about it? Growing up we are socialised to think sex in a negative light, leaving many feeling alone and that they have no one to speak to about sexual interactions and encounters. As sex ed in schools omit the matters of most importance such as body issues and relationships, we definitely think we need more people like Hannah who have such a large following to demonstrate that sex is okay to talk openly about. Not only that but also talking with your partner about your wants and needs can actually benefit your relationship emotionally, psychologically and mentally. Promoting sex positivity is important for us to have healthy relationships with others and our partners.

    That’s where we come in! I’m running a campaign that aims to reduce this negative stigma and common discomfort that is felt when it comes to talking about sex. Great Sexpectations is all about making discussions around sex normal and comfortable for everyone. Check out our page if you’d like to know more. – LT

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